Until Further Review…


I was snarked at on Facebook about my post from yesterday concerning Joel. I feel I was very sensitive with my post and said nothing hurtful whatsoever. I am very confused as to why anyone would be angry with what I said. I shared nothing secretive or scandalous. I shared nothing that I truly believe he would have cared about. Otherwise I never would have wrote it. I never EVER go out of my way to hurt another person and in fact, quite the opposite. I care very much about the feelings of others. So, even without understanding why – I took down the post. And I will apologize to anyone who it may have bothered. I was simply trying to authetically pay tribute.


I just have to add….I am in tears right now. The thought that I could have hurt people who are going through such a hard time really upsets me. I carefully tread through life empathizing with others. I hate seeing people in pain more than you know. I honestly cannot understand what was so awful about my post. But it clearly was awful because now I have been “defriended” myself. I suppose it is cruel irony. I just wish I knew what I had done.


About Heather Rayne

I am a mom, wife, writer, volunteer, eater of food, lover of animals and avid TV enthusiast. I am opinionated, honest, compassionate and sensitive. I can also be difficult, hard headed and emotional. I consider myself to have a great sense of humor and am very attracted to that in others. I am striving to live an authentic life. I am attempting to learn how to find happiness in the now. I always have hope to be a better person. That being said - I can be vulgar, negative and even a little bitchy at times. I say what I mean and my filter is often dysfunctional. With me, what you see is what you get. I have strong opinions and am quick to speak my mind. This can cause problems from time to time but I do not ever intend to hurt or offend anyone. With that - be warned. I do hope you enjoy my site. Thanks for visiting and have a swell day.

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