Tomorrow Really IS Another Day


This weekend was pretty awful. Seeded with moments of hopelessness and despair. Many tears were shed, words were daggered and feelings were maimed. In those kinds of moments I sometimes see no finale to it – no light at the end of the tunnel. I – as I do much to often in life – catastrophize a given situation and expect the worst. It is a process that has protected me somewhat in the past. But it hinders me in most cases.

What I didn’t see then was that my world was not ending, my life was worth living, forgiveness is possible and sometimes a good gulp of pride is exactly what the doctor SHOULD have ordered.

A couple well meaning, good hearted friends, a patient, loving husband and of course time all helped me see that even a bad thing doesn’t have to be horrible. You can be in a moment of shear gut wrenching sadness one day and wake up the next with the realization that it is indeed a new day. Always remember that when you feel you cannot go on…that Scarlet O’Hara really WAS the voice of reason…’tomorrow is another day’.  Sleep on it and give time a chance…it really will be okay.


About Heather Rayne

I am a mom, wife, writer, volunteer, eater of food, lover of animals and avid TV enthusiast. I am opinionated, honest, compassionate and sensitive. I can also be difficult, hard headed and emotional. I consider myself to have a great sense of humor and am very attracted to that in others. I am striving to live an authentic life. I am attempting to learn how to find happiness in the now. I always have hope to be a better person. That being said - I can be vulgar, negative and even a little bitchy at times. I say what I mean and my filter is often dysfunctional. With me, what you see is what you get. I have strong opinions and am quick to speak my mind. This can cause problems from time to time but I do not ever intend to hurt or offend anyone. With that - be warned. I do hope you enjoy my site. Thanks for visiting and have a swell day.

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